Once our PM series was underway, I was approached by Natalie Silverman from ‘The Fertility Podcast’ to ask if she could interview me about our work so far.
It felt like a strange request… it was my job to interview people about their lives. What would I say?
Turns out, I had a lot to say. In fact, I didn’t take a breath! As you can hear:
Thank you to Natalie for finding me, and asking me to be a part of your fantastic podcast series.
“I don’t think we’ll ever accept the idea that we won’t meet our own biological baby…”
On our fifth wedding anniversary we went in to talk to Jeremy Vine on Radio 2. A big deal for both of us, of course – he’s a legend.
Jeremy wanted to know exactly what it’s like for a couple to face many years of fertility problems.
So we told him:
We felt strong as we told Jeremy our story… until we started taking calls.
One brave lady called Sharon had not only faced five rounds of IVF, but during the treatment her husband passed away.
It broke my heart, and made me realise how lucky we are.
After IVF failed for us, my husband Jonny and I have been exploring alternative parenting options and documenting this for The PM Programme on BBC Radio 4.
During the series we look at donor conception, adoption, the male side of things, foster to adopt, overseas adoption, and a life without children.
Listen to full series on the PM Homepage
Infertility is an issue that affects so many…
Approximately 3.5 million people in the UK have trouble conceiving naturally. Around 50,000 of these people seek help from fertility doctors every year. Yet IVF is only successful for 30% of them. Then what do people do?
That’s why we are sharing our experience, in the hope that others in the same boat can take something from it.
Thank you to Eddie and the team at PM for their support, and for totally getting behind this subject. Please do listen, share, comment, and keep talking.
Thank you x
Jonny and I have been making a series for PM on BBC Radio 4. It explores what it’s like for a couple who are struggling to have a baby.
Our first piece followed our last IVF cycle:
When Jonny and I first discussed documenting this round of IVF, it sounded easy. In fact, it was easy. Being able to focus on something other than the injections, appointments and medical process was a welcome distraction. Then once the piece was edited and filed, we got on with our lives for a while.
It was only the hour before it played out live to the nation, did I realise the enormity of the situation. Everyone who knew us were about to find out exactly what we were going through. What the last four years had meant for us. All our personal medical information. And we weren’t even together to listen to it – I had gone shopping with friends, and Jonny was at home with the cat.
I’d been a reporter for years, but this was by far the most emotional and personal piece of radio I had ever made. Hearing it again was like reliving the trauma. I didn’t know what to do initially… but the response was incredible. So many friends, relatives, and complete strangers reached out to send their love and tell us how it helped them.
For that alone, we are grateful.